Valentine Day

Love and Loss: The Unconventional Valentine’s Day

This Valentine’s Day, we explore love in all its forms—romantic, familial, and even environmental!

Valentine’s Day isn’t just about candlelit dinners and romantic gestures; it’s a day that celebrates love in all its forms. Bishop Prof. Dr. Heinrich Bedford-Strohm reminds us of the importance of embracing love in the community, urging us to reflect on the ways we can support and uplift one another. Love extends beyond the realm of romance, enveloping friendships, family bonds, and the enduring love we have for ourselves. In times of uncertainty, such as the chaotic beginning of the year 2025, focusing on love can be a soothing balm for our anxious hearts.

In the midst of love stories blossoming at places like Albion College, where students Alondra Alcázar and Marlon Martin discovered their connection during their psychology studies, we find hope and inspiration. Their story reminds us that love often appears unexpectedly and can be the foundation for amazing friendships that can last a lifetime. Not all love stories are traditional, though; some take poignant turns. Lisa McCarty’s account of receiving a heartfelt Valentine’s Day card from her deceased father after his battle with cancer illustrates that love transcends even the boundaries of life and death. It’s a powerful reminder that relationships continue to evolve even after loss.

In today's fast-paced world, many individuals, like mental health advocate known for his work on climate change and burnout, are integrating their love for the environment and mental wellness into their daily lives. He champions love not just for fellow humans but also for the Earth we inhabit. This Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate by acknowledging the love we have for our planet and the mental health issues that connect us all. Whether it’s planting trees or lending a hand to a friend in need, every act driven by love can make a significant impact.

As we recognize the multifaceted nature of love, it’s essential to remember that Valentine’s Day isn’t merely for couples. The Health Commissioner, Dr. James McDonald, reminds us to love ourselves and those around us just as fervently. In Kenya, Valentine’s Day carries unique traditions and celebrations that reflect our rich culture, from gifting handmade crafts to feasting with family and friends. Love is indeed universal; it invites us all—regardless of relationship status—to embrace and celebrate it.

Did you know that Valentine’s Day is rooted in ancient Roman traditions? Emperor Claudius II banned marriages to ensure his soldiers wouldn’t abandon their duties, prompting a priest named Valentine to wed couples in secret. Fast forward to today, and we celebrate this day with diverse expressions of affection! Another intriguing fact is that Valentine’s Day is the second-largest card-sending holiday after Christmas, with millions exchanged globally—just a fun way to illustrate how love overflows among various cultures.